Alexey SkoblikovOn the other hand, that Clash of 未 and 丑 does not necessarily spoil the strength of support. The month is still winter earth, too frozen to be...On the other hand, that Clash of 未 and 丑 does not necessarily spoil the strength of support. The month is still winter earth, too frozen to be active, so clash against Summer earth 未 may just bring activity to the system and get 丑 to defrost by pressure.
Month is Recreation. So mother's example was to be special, to be intuitive, to rely on deep inner intentions. Maybe in the field of administrating things. So she might have been a person, liking to arrange things and life in her special way. But that special way might have been too cold, too distant, too swallowed down into her deep intentions, not so much taking into consideration the actual needs of the person. If Earth is useful, then it might play a good role, giving a person a talent to do things in an indigenous way. Also if it is the special type Me and Mother, then it is a successful person, having all, that one needs. If Earth is not useful, if it is normal strong chart, then the level of success would be lower, because of the chart very little useful elements. And then special ways of the mother would be not so accepted. The person would prefer to find a partner — hot and powerful, that would be a kind of antipode to the mother's coldness. But even if it would be the antipode, in a way that partner would have much in common with the mother — also doing things in a special unpredictable way, but still more passionate.Show more6 months ago
Alexey SkoblikovSo I am clearly doubting if it is normal strong or Me and Mother type. 丑 is a Reward Spirit (Angel), that sounds nice. So influence of Mother and...So I am clearly doubting if it is normal strong or Me and Mother type. 丑 is a Reward Spirit (Angel), that sounds nice. So influence of Mother and Grand-mothers might tend to become something correct and desired. Conflict of the partner against them would then be a disappointing feature. So if it is Me and Mother type, then all ancestors look like a holy history and it would be hard for the husband to compete with all those centuries of glory.Show more6 months ago
Alexey SkoblikovAlso, the person feels oneself as a direct continuation of all the male ancestors. And for the husband that is really hard task to up to the...Also, the person feels oneself as a direct continuation of all the male ancestors. And for the husband that is really hard task to up to the standard.
The thing, that unites the person with all the male ancestors is 辛 Yin Metal — it is something precious, exclusive, elite. And all female ancestors also share that quality (in gathered stems branches also have 辛). But the husband doesn't have that elite aura. So he has to compensate with a business orientation (Chances), fight mentality (Surrender) — that's his answer to the aristocratic origins of the person.Show more6 months ago